If you can still see how you could once have loved a person, you are still in love; an extinct love is always wholly incredible.
"'If a child wants to grow up to be a cowgirl, she ought to be able to do it, or else this world ain't worth living in. I want every little girl - and every boy, for that matter - to be free to realize their fantasies. Anything less than that is unacceptable to me.'" - Bonanza Jellybean (Tom Robbins, Even Cowgirls Get The Blues)